Friday morning, May 12

1) I just heard the phrase "Is Yewtybbe dead?" And my first thought was, "Oh for God's sake, are we all going to have to learn something else now?!" But then we will anyway, I suppose, as certainly (in my mind, anyway) ye Fycebykke is jumping the shark. The question is, where will we all go once that happens?

2) I have a 9 AM meeting at Tatte, the decadent French bakery in Kendall Square. Om nom nom.

3) Steadfastly not complaining about the weather, but I welcome a springlike rise in temperature - if it ever comes.

Thursday midafternoon, May 11

1) Sometimes - and this will not surprise that many people - I can be impossibly vulgar. In a meeting this morning someone said "We want a buttload of nominations." And before I could stop myself I said "We don't want a buttload of nominations. We all know what comes from the butt. What we want is a greater quantity of thoughtful nominations."

2) Spin the GTS Wheel and you get "My nerves are being torn to shreds!"

3) One month from today Reunions will be over.

Thursday morning, May 11

1) Yesterday was, for me, the most shocking day of national news since the presidential election last November. President Trump's firing of FBI director James Comey days after Comey's request to the Justice Department for more funding for the bureau's investigation of Trump's campaign's ties to Russia, coupled with the exclusion of the American press from the President's meeting with the Russian foreign minister (while Russian press got access), not to mention that meeting itself - what is happening to our nation?!

1a) Quote of the Day: "I feel as if we are being conditioned to chaos by a 'president' who abhors the stillness of stability. Every day we awake to a new outrage. We now exist in a rolling trauma — exhausting and unrelenting." - Charles M. Blow in The New York Times

1b) Once I was involved with a non-profit whose charismatic leader functioned best in a crisis. But no non-profit functions best in a crisis - maybe in the short term, but not day after day after blessed day.

2) Yesterday I was also deeply disturbed by video of a brawl aboard a Southwest Airlines flight. This sure has been a bad year for the airlines, and it's only mid-May.

3) "What now must we do?" as it says in the Bible? If you know which verse it is, won't you please tell me?

Wednesday morning, May 10

1) At no moment yesterday could I shake an overwhelming fatigue. I was in bed shortly after 8 PM (!) and so finally decided to get up at 5:15 after lying awake over an hour. I really needed that - but I can't explain it.

2) As part of this morning's devotional, I reached for Walt Whitman’s “Calamus Poems.” And it opened to this:

“There shall be from me a new friendship—It shall
     be called after my name,
It shall circulate through The States, indifferent of
     place,
It shall twist and intertwist them through and around
     each other—Compact shall they be, showing
     new signs,
Affection shall solve every one of the problems of
     freedom,
Those who love each other shall be invincible,
They shall finally make America completely victorious,
     in my name.”

Think of that: "Affection shall solve every one of the problems of freedom."

3) Reading the news of President Trump's firing of James Comey only makes me wonder how long we have left. America's cheese has been moved.

Tuesday morning, May 9

1) It doesn't matter whether or not I feel like I can adult today. I must adult. So it's off to adulting I go!

2) As Greta Garbo memorably said in Grand Hotel, "I always said I'd leave off when the time came."

2a) I'd've said "famously said in Grand Hotel, but we all know that "I vant to be alone" is what she said famously in that film.

3) A favorite annual errand today: collecting our Pops tickets at Symphony Hall.

Monday night, May 8

1) Spin the GTS Wheel and you get: "I thought U2 was a submarine."

2) Floundered through two laps in the pool. Wonderful to go after 8 PM, as almost no one is there.

3) Julie and Julia. What an inspiring film for me this year.

Monday morning, May 8

1) You make all kinds of plans with yourself to get a strong start to the day, and then you bargain with yourself to alter those plans because you're just too damn tired.

2) Dishwashing has never been a favorite housekeeping activity, but unavoidable, esp. as I have no dishwasher. And I have a reputation as a terrible housekeeper in no small part because of a long, long history of neglecting washing the dishes until the sink was unusably full. (Indeed, two of my best friends remain traumatized by their impromptu visit to my Beacon Street apartment way back in 1992; they said it was like modern art, how full the sink was.) But since about 2010 I've slowly changed my habits, and this morning, after a weekend dinner for ten that involved 41 pieces of silverware, ten plates, ten tumblers, four small serving bowls, ten or 12 wine glasses, a colander, two pots, and a variety of kitchen utensils like tongs and big spoons, only the biggest pot and the cutting board are in the sink this morning.

3) One month from today Reunions begins. One month!

Sunday night, May 7

1) Mostly away from social media this weekend, preparing for a casual dinner party.

2) Early this afternoon I heard the third-floor neighbors returning home and poked my head out the door to thank them for a favor. All four of them in wide-brimmed hats and carrying picnic gear, I asked if they'd been to the park. Three-year-old MIss blurted out "We went to a big fairy house!" And without missing a beat I asked "And do you know a big fairy to live in a big fairy house?" Needless to say all the adults shared a smile.

2a) I am not quite sure what this big fairy house is, but apparently they leave gifts for the big fairy, and sometimes get gifts back. I think they said they left dates this time.

2b) How I'd like someone to leave a date or two at my house . . .

3) Almost feels as if I've done nothing but wash dishes this weekend, but there was much other housekeeping to do, and camaraderie to enjoy, and oh my goodness, the moon was bright this morning.

Friday Midday, May 5

1) At this point I don't even think chocolate could help.

2) Speaking of which, I had NO idea the chocolate chip cookie had been invented as recently as the 1930s.

3) Yesterday was a real blend of WTF, but with a few "currants in the cake," like scheduling a coffee meeting next week with a rarely-seen colleague, staffing a career fair, and someone who was at the awards convocation on Monday telling me what a great job she thought I did.

Wednesday morning, May 3

1) Reading an article in the N** Y*** T**** about the National Intelligence Service gathering raw communications data, I was suddenly interrupted as the screen changed into a full-screen notice that my software was out of date and that I needed to download a "Mac Media Player." What can you do but quit out of your browser, reopen it, and delete all cookies?

2) When Facebook becomes unbearable for too many people, where will we all go to be together on social media?

3) So grateful I'm able to live alone. Yes, it's an adjustment, but I'm loving it.

Sunday night, April 30

1) Already one unsubscribe from the Etiquetteer email list after posting tonight's video. I have to wonder if he found the topic offensive.

2) Ten years on Facebook, and I've grown so disenchanted with it. Once I never thought that might be possible, and now . . .

2a) I wish the Next Big Social Media would come along so that we could all go there. I'd hoped Ello would be that two years ago, and of course now the creators are bleeding all the good features away from it anyway.

3) Back on Facebook, a friend had posted a link to an article on S****.c*m about how much longer we have until humanity is extinct. Reading it, I was brought back to my sophomore year of high school (the year I was at a Catholic school) and remembering how afraid I was of nuclear holocaust. A friend had tried to sell me on Mother Shipton's prophecy that the world would end in 1981. Imagine my frustration several years later when I discovered that Mother Shipton's original prophecy was for 1881.

Sunday afternoon, April 30

1) Houseguests are a wonderful motivator for housecleaning. The results are nice for them, and definitely nice for me. :-)

2) Enjoying a beautiful state of relaxation after a great big NAP - will soon have to focus on other items on my list.

3) For me this weekend has been low key and beautiful, just what I needed.

Sunday morning, April 30

1) Last night a party at the Casa de Greenville, I very nearly stepped on a small child crawling on the floor. A brawny arm reached out to keep my foot from advancing - and a good thing, too. Have infants become the new element of the Cocktail Party Obstacle Course?

1a) One healthy-sized rye manhattan was all I could manage. Clearly my capacity is changing with age.

2) Eagerly consuming Dining Out in Boston, a history of restaurants and dining here from 1800 to the 1980s. Did you know that sandwiches didn't make it to the menu until the 1920s?

3) Up since 6 AM in a quiet frenzy of housekeeping before welcoming a brunch guest at 11. It's not all going to happen.

Friday morning, April 28

1) This morning I wrote in an email to a friend "But it’s interesting to consider how passions change as we grow, evolve, and experience. When I was very young, it was acting. In college and grad school I drifted to publishing (which was hip in the 1980s, quite the vogue). After I came out it was doing special events, and I did a lot for small non-profits until I finally started doing reunion events for MIT, and then the Ballet, and then back to MIT. And then it was Etiquetteer, writing that became my passion. Now I’m ready to integrate my voice into that somehow. It’s going to be good for me - and I want it to be profitable, too."

2) Scheduling, scheduling, networking . . .

3) The pile of action items on every front is teetering in just such a way that it's likely to fall on me today . . . by Sunday at the latest.

Thursday evening, April 27

1) This morning I did my first voiceover in a recording studio, providing brief narration for a video for office colleagues. I feel like I'm going to have to learn to breathe again! By the end of each take I felt almost as if I was gasping. Just being confronted by a clown-nosed microphone felt different. The production staff praised me for the warmth of my voice, which was of course very pleasant to hear. Now I'm eager to see the final product!

2) After the Baker House Piano Drop, walked over the bridge with a colleague and then down the Esplanade all the way to the Charles Street Jail - uh, Liberty Hotel now! - and thence to the Harrison Gray Otis House for a Boston History Project program on Beauport, one of my very very favorite house museums. Very pleasant to see some friends there. The program was simply wonderful, and also referenced the Gibson House. :-) AND, big surprise, the speaker had somewhere been to an Etiquetteer program!

3) Now soaking my feet in ice water.

Thursday morning, April 27

1) A lot of the schedule today: doing a voiceover for the Annual Fund (!), reviewing program proofs with a volunteer, luncheon with colleagues, committee teleconference with one of my favorite (but most exasperating) committees.

1a) I could ride this whirlwind better with more coffee.

2) Praying a lot these days for friends who are experiencing illness.

3) This morning on the bus, I finished The Victorian Internet by Tom Standage, about the invention and proliferation of telegraphy in the 19th century - and comparing it to the Internet. Finishing the book, I looked at the copyright and was surprised to find it was published in 1998.