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THIS IS ROBERT TALKING . . . Or, the Dark Side of Etiquetteer :-)

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I gave this little heart-shaped cushion to Mother as a Christmas gift in the 1990s.

I gave this little heart-shaped cushion to Mother as a Christmas gift in the 1990s.

Friday Morning, February 8

February 8, 2019

1) The temperature dropped 30 degrees since yesterday. The gentle humidity and the poignant fragrance of sweet olive have given way to the fresh briskness of the low forties. I remember days like this in March in my childhood, and I loved them.

2) Filling time before departing for the airport with thank-you notes to a few neighbors. The house has taken on that pre-travel air it always has before I leave for the airport: is everything packed, what else is there to do, did you remember, did I forget, what about this, what about that, is it time yet, WHY isn’t it time yet, etc. etc. etc.

3) I am very tired - we all are - and I hope and expect that being out of this house will provide some perspective and some clarity. What has been truly overwhelming is all the kindness and support from every quarter: Mother’s neighbors, my own friends and colleagues, and very especially from the church. Mother’s “six-word life story” - “Lost. Found. Saved by church family.” - told how central First Methodist was to her life. Everyone there has been present for us in every way.

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