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THIS IS ROBERT TALKING . . . Or, the Dark Side of Etiquetteer :-)

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Monday Evening, December 2

December 2, 2019

1) Today the bobeches arrived in the mail, so I could actually light the red tapers in Granny’s candelabra.

1a) I lit them during the cocktail hour, and it’s quite clear I’ll have to put something under them anyway to keep the wax from damaging the sideboard.

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2) New artificial Christmas tree arrives later this week, so tonight I started rounding up ornaments from the different places they’ve been squirreled away. I have a feeling others will turn up!

2a) Some of these are childhood friends, others were acquired as an adult, either gifts or purchases. But since I’ve so rarely had a Christmas tree in my own home - why go to all that trouble when spending half of December with the family? - they haven’t gotten a lot of use.

3) I am embracing the novelty of keeping Christmas in my own little home this year. Next year, who knows? I might go plop myself down on the beach someplace. But for this first year, it feels right.

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