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THIS IS ROBERT TALKING . . . Or, the Dark Side of Etiquetteer :-)

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Sunday, August 19 - Provincetown, Day Two, Part Two

August 19, 2018

1) The price of spontaneity is sometimes confusion. Since none of us had made any plans, When I felt it was time for Daddy to get fed, I searched the house and grounds, let M. Davide know I was heading off, and off I went.

2) Another sign Daddy had in his office was Alice's dialogue with the Cheshire Cat that ends "Then it doesn't really matter which way you go." So I kept drifting along Comical Street until I decided I wanted to lunch on the water, and sought out Café PayPay in the East End.

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3) Miraculously, the small table for two at the center of the waterfront railing was free for me! Aperol spritz + lobster salad + To Dare More Boldly = perfect.

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4) From there I drifted to PAAM, which I very rarely visit. Wonderful exhibitions. It's interesting to observe how a painting hung by itself at a far wall can come to inhabit an entire space.

4a) Aside from the exhibitions PAAM had a 12x12 silent auction going on, of 12x12 works of art by members. I was surprised to find myself bidding on a painting!

5) Ambling through almost all of the East End galleries, I saw works I loved, works I admired, and works that made me ask "WTF?" It is ever thus.

5a) In one gallery I had to ask myself "Are you in love with this painting, or are you in love with a color scheme in a silver-gilt frame?"

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5b) And I was delighted to run into my friend Andrew, who is always good about sending me Articles of Interest for Etiquetteer.

6) Mercy goodness, there is a West End gallery exhibiting original works of art by ye Tym of Fynlynd! #scandalous

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7) As long as I'd made it to Aretha Franklin Street, I paid a call at Hochmina-sur-Mer and chatted with the boys a bit before returning home to commit Acts of Cleanliness and Minor Surgery before tea.

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8) Tea was . . . interesting, not least because I decided to have not one but two of ye Bytteslyp's lethal planter's punches. Undoubtedly the weather had something to do with the comparatively sparse turnout. I kept bringing up references to The Horror of Party Beach.

9) Just before the end of tea Daniel and I cut out to attempt a dining experience at ye Frynte Strytte. And after a considerable wait, we did get two seats at the bar for a very good dinner and some good talk.

9a) I must say, it was valuable to watch all the restaurant staff interact with each other. Some of them have clearly been working as a team for years and years. They know what they're doing and how to do it, and they take care of their people well.

10) A visit to Ben and Jerry's to feed my unborn child, and then a walk back down Comical Street in a gentle mist that grew heavier as we walked along.

11) Happy to be snug in bed now, glad I didn't get my act together enough to take the boat back tonight.

 

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