1) Black, gray, and a splash of pink.
2) Yesterday I had a voicemail message from a woman who called me "Mr. Dimmick" and identified herself as "the widow of [Name of Man I Knew for 25 Years]." Since I've known this man and his wife 25 years or more, I thought it was odd she'd address me so formally. When I called her back I said "[Name of Wife], it's so nice to hear from you!" Imagine my surprise when she replied "I'm so glad you called. I'm not [Name of Wife], but his first wife" . . . of whom I knew nothing!
3) Just to be clear, I took notice of Billy Graham's death, I'm not mourning him. There's a difference.